What NOT to Say to a Woman Who’s Just Miscarried

What NOT to Say to a Woman Who’s Just Miscarried

Look, there’s a lot of pressure to “say the right thing.” There’s something terrifying about grief– it feels messy, overwhelming. Like if it goes on too long, regular life will shrink in the distance to a tiny, unreachable speck on the horizon. When the terrible thing...

Miscarriage Grief Strategies #1: Baby Book

Grief Strategies Grieving can feel like a chaotic mess. One minute I’m “fine”, or at least maybe treading water. The next, I am overwhelmed and sobbing. I plunge into deep black holes. Time becomes elastic. I scrap my way into coherence. I have conversations, I...